As some of you know, I have a lot going on at home. My father will finally have a long-awaited spinal surgery next week Monday. It is a surgery that has already been postponed twice for a variety of reasons. While I'm sure everything will go well, it is hard to be so far away while it happens. In addition, my great uncle and Godfather was entered into hospice care last week, and a priest conducted last rites. He has had a hard year, and it is a good thing that his struggle is nearing the end. It is simply painful to feel helpless in the situation, even though I know that there is nothing I could do no matter what. My family is strong, I've been continuously updated and my love is being sent where it is needed. On top of it all, I am dealing with a recent (3 months today) end of a very long term relationship (4 and 1/2 years). Photos of him on a trip with the girl he left me for, a relationship that was being built while we were still together, keep popping up on my Facebook newsfeed, as we have mutual friends who comment and like them. I have taken steps to keep this from happening again. Dealing with reminders of his betrayal when I am still trying to deal with the breakup in general is difficult. It is especially difficult because I am physically separated from those who know me, love me, and would usually help me handle the curveballs life throws at me. It is not so much that I am homesick (although I love all of those at home), as that I was already in a situation to feel a bit lonely before I went away. Some days, anger is what greets me when I wake up and follows me to bed at night. Anger that life is unfair and out of my control. Life (and he) owe me an apology that I will never get. I am still enjoying my time here, Ecuador is a beautiful place where it is impossible to overlook the wonders that life can bring. I just have some emotional baggage to tote around with me on my journeys, and the load sometimes feels very heavy.
Enough about the bad. Let's talk about some of the amazing and wonderful. My students are brilliant! As English Language Learners, they astound me with their mastery of vocabulary on a daily basis. My collaborating teacher is phenomenal and creates engaging and fun lessons in a well-managed environment. I have been given an excellent example of how to be the exact type of teacher I hope to become. She is already letting me take the wheel and teach students during the last two periods of the day. I could not be happier about my choice to come here and the knowledge it is bringing me.
I missed a blog update, but you guys didn't miss much. The weekend before last was spent having a birthday celebration of one of my roommates at Plaza Fotch, a place the locals sometimes call "Gringo Land" because it caters to the college crowd. Many of the students at the local college are studying abroad. We went out for drinks, dinner and dancing. A
wonderful thing about Ecuadorian culture is that it does not include the American concept that a girl dancing should be rubbed up upon and made uncomfortable. It was a much more carefree club experience than any I had before.
We also did some exploring of Quito, found some great markets and parks. My favorite was the discovery of the artisan's market on Jorge Washington. It is like the biggest, coolest flea market I have ever seen! Sometimes my senses we over loaded with the endless rows of shops packed full of clothing, jewelry, artwork and keepsakes. He are some of the highlights:
This guy was just hanging out near a market, all dress up with his harp, I'm assuming waiting for a taxi.
Imagine 9 isles of these stores, 15 deep per isle!
See what I mean about sensory overload? I need to work on my bartering face!
I was confused about these things, so I asked. It turns out that Catholic nuns, monks and priests dress this way during Holy Week celebrations.
A monument to a former President from Quito in a plaza next to a cute park Kristi and I found on a walk.
I love all the street art here. So much talent!
The walkway overpass was almost like a children's art museum.
There was a dinosaur display on the streets near Parque Carolina. At least 10 of these life sized recreations. Some even moved!
Last weekend, KSU students had another birthday. This time at a fancy restaurant owned by the brother of Katelyn's collaborating teacher. I ate a lot of delicious food, but felt a little sick the next day. Ecuador does not use all the preservatives or pasteurization processes that the US does, so a slightly upset stomach is sort of a right of passage. I spent Saturday in because of it, plus, I needed a down day to recoup. Sunday, I went to the equator. Actually, two "equators." Mitad del Mundo was build to mark the middle of the world before GPS, and it was later discovered that they were several meters off. It is a short walk to the "true equator" that was calculated 17 years ago. Some online sources suggest it may be a few feet off, too. Corny equator photos for me, nonetheless!
I'm in (pretend) two places at once!
The monument at Mitad del Munod
The view alone is worth the trip!
They was a bullfighting area (no actually fighting at the time) I had a stubborn-off with this bull. I think he won.
Showing how the equator was measured.
.... and in the 1900s, it was concluded that this was not the true equator. Oops!
We then walked to the other equator. There was a guided tour (offered in English :D) about local tribes, the tradition of shrinking heads, and "science" that can only be done at latitude 0.0'0"
The real equator
Our fabulous guide!
In case you were wonder how to decapitate someone and shrink their head.
A replica of a shrunken head. They believe that the soul is in the mind, so to take the brain from the head is to own the soul of the person.
This sundial tells perfect time. One side for each equinox. I want to go back on the 22nd and see the transition!
Two places at once. For real! Probably...
Video of the water trick. It's an optical illusion. Imagine a clock. If it's positioned with "North" on top (as in the numbers being right side up), you would see the hands rotate clockwise. If it's positioned with "South" on top (numbers upside down), you would see the hands rotate counter-clockwise. The same is true with swirling water, they can convince you that it's going the opposite direction by positioning you to have the opposite perspective.
Balancing an egg. It is doable anywhere, but allegedly easiest on the equator. I still failed
A re-creation of a chief's tomb. He would be buried in a large pot with his best possessions. His family would then be drugged with Mescaline and buried alive with him.
That's all that is new in my world. Next weekend we plan to go see Baños. It has several waterfalls, tons of aventure sports, hot springs and a nature preserve! I can't wait to go, and to share it with all of you. Feel free to (PLEASE!) COMMENT and let me know how things are for you at home.